I'm Focusing More on ME and Less on THEM!
By Chevy
Let me start by sincerely apologizing to everyone who thought you were reading about Scottie Pippen and his history of stalking.
To be honest, I honestly do not care about Scottie Pippen, and I never did in the way some people may have assumed. Neither Pippen nor Lisa has any substantial significance in my life.
So, if you came here expecting another chapter about them, please excuse me while I change the subject.
IT'S TIME TO FOCUS MORE ON ME AND LESS ON THEM!
THIS IS NOT ABOUT SCOTTIE PIPPEN OR LISA
Apparently, some readers may have gotten the impression that my life revolves around Scottie Pippen and Lisa. Let me clear that up.
My life is about ME.
My experiences, my ambitions, my businesses, my creativity, my future, and the things I want to accomplish deserve my attention.
I have spent enough time discussing subjects that have brought me stress. I am ready to redirect my energy toward things that bring value to my life.
I do not need to keep talking about somebody to prove a point. I do not need to keep revisiting a subject simply because readers expect another installment.
Sometimes, you have to recognize when a conversation has run its course.
And for me, it is time to move on to other things.
JEFF STIBEL, LEGALZOOM & THE KOBE CONVERSATIONS
Let me also make something clear: I am not here to advertise Jeff Stibel, LegalZoom, or what people characterize as a relationship between Jeff and Kobe.
The ongoing stress surrounding these subjects has been enough for me. The repeated discussions involving Kobe have left me exhausted by the topic, and I no longer want to devote my time to it.
I have my own responsibilities to manage.
My dispute involving LegalZoom is a separate matter that I am addressing through the legal process. On October 22, 2026, I filed Valentine v. LegalZoom, Case No. 2:26-cv-03480-CDS-DJA, in federal court, representing myself pro se.
I will address developments relevant to that case when necessary. But I am not interested in making every day a public discussion about LegalZoom, its leadership, or anyone else's personal affairs.
There is a difference between pursuing a legal matter and allowing that matter to consume your entire life.
I need to make room for other things.
I AM NOT HERE TO PROMOTE ANYBODY ELSE'S DRAMA.
PLEASE DON'T MAKE ME POLITICAL!
I honestly do not care who you vote for.
Vote Republican. Vote Democrat. Vote independent. Make your own decision.
Your vote belongs to you, and I have no interest in arguing with people simply because they hold different political opinions.
Do not assume that everything I write is a political statement. Do not assign me a political identity because you want to interpret my words through your own perspective.
I have my own thoughts, my own interests, and my own priorities.
I am not running for office. I am not asking you to join a political movement. And I am not interested in spending my time trying to convince every person on the internet to agree with me.
PLEASE LET ME BE A PERSON WITHOUT MAKING EVERYTHING POLITICAL!
I DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH TIME I HAVE LEFT ON THIS EARTH
This is the part I want everyone to understand.
I do not know how much time I have left on this earth. None of us knows exactly how much time we have.
What I do know is that I refuse to spend whatever time I have remaining worrying about how someone else feels about me.
I cannot make everybody like me.
I cannot control what everyone says about me.
I cannot satisfy every expectation, answer every criticism, or correct every misunderstanding.
And I am no longer interested in making that my life's mission.
I want to LIVE.
I want to BUILD.
I want to CREATE.
I want to ENJOY MYSELF.
I want to develop my businesses, pursue my goals, write about subjects that interest me, and experience the opportunities that life still has to offer.
I want to wake up and decide what I want to accomplish without feeling obligated to address somebody else's opinion of me.
Life is too precious to spend every day defending your existence to people who may never understand you.
I have learned that protecting your peace sometimes means stepping away from conversations that no longer serve you.
It means understanding that not every opinion deserves a response and not every disagreement deserves your attention.
I HAVE A LIFE TO LIVE, AND I INTEND TO LIVE IT!
MY BUSINESS IS MY BUSINESS
I have goals to accomplish and businesses to build.
I have ideas that deserve my attention, plans that require execution, and opportunities that require preparation.
That is where I want to direct my energy.
I want to focus on C.A.V. Enterprises LLC and my entrepreneurial plans. I want to continue developing C.A.V.E. Notary, Apostille & Document Services. I want to create content, explore new opportunities, and work toward a future that reflects my vision.
Those things require time, concentration, and commitment.
I cannot give every ounce of my attention to outside distractions and then expect to have unlimited energy left for myself.
At some point, you have to prioritize your own life.
I am not saying that I will never comment on another person, discuss a public issue, or express an opinion again. I am saying that I have the right to choose what I discuss and when I have had enough.
My blog is my platform, but my life is much bigger than my blog.
And my next chapter does not have to revolve around the same subjects as the last one.
PLEASE EXCUSE ME FROM YOUR NIGHTMARE!
If you thought my life was supposed to revolve around Scottie Pippen, Lisa, Jeff Stibel, LegalZoom, Kobe, or politics, I hope this article clears up the misunderstanding.
I am not interested in spending my remaining time on earth managing everybody else's feelings about me.
You are entitled to your opinions.
You are entitled to disagree with me.
You are entitled to read my blog or decide that it is not for you.
But I am also entitled to change the subject, redirect my attention, and move forward.
I do not owe anyone an endless conversation about a subject I no longer wish to discuss.
I do not have to keep explaining myself to prove that I am moving on.
And I do not need anybody's permission to focus on my own future.
So, to those who expected another chapter about other people, please accept my sincere apology if I gave you that impression.
I have other things to do.
I have a life to live.
I have goals to pursue.
And I have ME to focus on.
NOW, IF YOU'LL EXCUSE ME…
I'M MINDING MY BUSINESS!
Less time worrying about who likes me.
Less time explaining myself to people who have already made up their minds.
Less time discussing subjects that leave me stressed.
More time building.
More time creating.
More time living.
More time focusing on the woman I am becoming.
MY LIFE. MY TIME. MY PEACE. MY BUSINESS.
And I strongly encourage you to do the same.
With that said, I am changing the subject and moving forward.
— Chevy
P.S. You do not have to agree with me, understand me, or even like me. Just remember that I have a life beyond the people I write about. Please excuse me while I get back to living it.
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