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Tuesday, June 9, 2026

Food for Thought: Why Would I Encourage Someone Else to Take My Companion?


There is a question that has been on my mind lately:

How much sense does it make for me, as a woman, to encourage another person whether man or woman to take my companion?

Think about it.

If I truly value my relationship, why would I promote someone else's access to the very person I claim is important to me? If successful, the outcome could be the elimination of my own place in that relationship. Logically, it seems contradictory.

Relationships are built on trust, loyalty, commitment, and mutual respect. While friendships and healthy social interactions are normal, actively encouraging someone else to pursue your companion creates a dynamic that can undermine the very foundation of what you are trying to protect.

Some people may argue that love should be tested. Others may say that if a companion can be "taken," they were never truly yours to begin with. There is some truth in that perspective. A committed partner makes choices every day. Loyalty is not determined by the absence of temptation; it is demonstrated through consistent decisions.

But the larger question remains:

Why would anyone intentionally invite competition into a relationship they want to preserve?

If your goal is to build a future together, encouraging alternatives seems counterproductive. If your goal is to walk away, then perhaps it no longer matters. However, if your goal is stability, security, and growth, common sense would suggest nurturing the relationship rather than creating circumstances that threaten it.

This thought also raises another important point: no one can truly "take" someone who does not wish to leave. Every adult has free will. Relationships are ultimately maintained or ended by the choices of the people involved, not by outsiders alone.

Perhaps the real lesson is this:

Protect what you value.

Invest in what matters.

Communicate openly.

And never be surprised when actions produce predictable consequences.

At the end of the day, encouraging someone else to take your companion may say less about the third person and more about the state of the relationship itself.

Just some food for thought.

— Chevy 

Monday, June 8, 2026

JAY-Z ROOTS PICNIC PERFORMANCE 2026 FULL PERFORMANCE

"YOU WANT ME TO EXPLAIN THE "FRENCH HORN"???

Wassup Quest Love!!! This will keep me busy all day, translating words

Repost May 31, 2026

"Make Chyvette"... Do what??? 36:40


You play too much...
"How you gonna leak my location like that"?...  (I'm) "No Bitch"
Thank you for a "good report"
Ok, if you know where I live, he just confirmed my location
He kept me away from everyone, Wow
Which nigger am I???
You sang "Excuse Me Miss"... #Seriously
Cause I got what it takes to rock the mic.. What???

GET YOUR ASS UP BITCH #NYC

Your Stupid Ass Pulled A Gun on the Wrong One

#GRODT

Home Relaxing working on my COOKBOOK

Cooking is my therapy #Offline

Not having a Panic #PTSD #Attack Today




 

Ain’t Talking About #NOTHING

Selling Tickets to KNICKS GAME

#SHOWTIME #UPDATED




#WARNING DO NOT DIAL 911 
NEW YORK IS UNDER AN OFFICAL #THREAT

RIP Stacy King... "Why are people who know about DJ dying (again)???

#NBA #BULLSHIT

You still owe Leaks money for Devonte funeral!!!

MY APOLOGIES...
THIS IS HOW SCOTTIE PIPPEN SAYS
"SHUT THE FUCK UP"


I can explain...
"GIVE ME THE HOT SAUCE"
But my heart is bleeding 

"CURSE OF KOBE BRYANT CONTINUES"
Do you really question why I passed???

I Stopped Myself to Pray

This morning, I stopped everything to pray, reflect, and offer intercessory prayer for Spenser Leaks and his family.

I woke up late, turned on the television, and immediately found myself thinking about Chicago, basketball, friendship, loss, and the passage of time. Reports and conversations circulating today reminded me of how quickly life can change and how important it is to pause before reacting.

My first response was prayer.

For years, I have followed the game, studied the players, watched the stories unfold, and shared my own perspective on events surrounding Chicago basketball. Some people know me for my passion, others know me for my opinions, and many know that I have never been afraid to speak my mind.

When I think about Stacy King, I think about a voice that became part of the Chicago basketball experience. To countless fans, he was more than a commentator. He was a personality, a storyteller, and someone whose voice became connected to memories of games, victories, defeats, and unforgettable moments.

As I sat reflecting this morning, I realized how exhausted I am.

Not angry.

Not defeated.

Just tired.

Tired of conflict.

Tired of controversy.

Tired of explaining myself.

Tired of revisiting the same stories over and over again.

Yesterday was one of the few stress-free days I have had in a long time. I spent the day doing something that brings me peace: recreating dishes and recipes I have prepared throughout my life.

There is something therapeutic about cooking.

Every recipe carries a memory.

Every ingredient tells a story.

Every meal reminds me of a chapter of my life.

When I lost so much during my departure from Chicago, I lost more than possessions. I lost notebooks, memories, records, and pieces of my personal history. Rebuilding those recipes by hand has become part of rebuilding myself.

That process has reminded me that healing does not happen overnight.

It happens one day at a time.

One prayer at a time.

One recipe at a time.

One act of faith at a time.

I want to be clear about something: I am responsible for my own actions, my own choices, and my own path. I do not carry responsibility for the actions of others.

At this stage of my life, I am focused on peace, faith, family, business, cooking, writing, and preserving the legacy I am building.

My heart is tired, but my faith remains strong.

So today, I choose prayer over anger.

Reflection over reaction.

Faith over fear.

And silence where silence is necessary.

To everyone carrying grief, stress, uncertainty, or unanswered questions, know that you are not alone.

Today, I pray for healing.

I pray for truth.

I pray for peace.

And most of all, I pray for strength to keep moving forward.

Chyvette Valentine

Scottie Pippen GAY, PARTNER, 7 Children, Cars, Mansion Tour, NET WORTH 2024 and More (repost from 7/7/2024)

"Conway, Arkansas Gay Lover Speaks"
#STALKING YOU TOO... He threatened to kill you too???
#RACIST: "His white slave"... I told you he hates white men!!!
#GAY ABUSER: He beat you also...
 

KNICKS FANS: "I FILMED THIS MOVIE WHAT YEAR"??? #COACH

I am trying to avoid talking thru the movie

#REMOTE LIVE FROM THE VIEW

I AM NOT GOING TO BE POLITICAL

LET'S KEEP THIS REAL

Watching this video reminded me...

 of everything I am missing from my podcast studio

Byron Davis in Santa Monica 2019 before Kobe crashed

I KNOW THAT APARTMENT IN SANTA MONICA :)

LOOK AT YOU NOW

#BIGMOMMA

COOKBOOK: Yesterday I added over 30 recipes to my favorite dishes...

I am not selfish, you can try these at home


Sunday's Signature Coconut Water Infused with Fruit


 

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