Monday, January 19, 2026
I refuse to downplay my intelligence, to make you comfortable with your ignorance!! (Repost from May 4, 2025)!
Sorry to Break the Mold But I Am Not Your Stereotype
Sorry to break every mold of your definition of what a Black woman should be but not all of us are uneducated, ghetto, or illiterate. In fact, some of us are moguls in the making. It’s ironic how so many admire Black men, copy our culture, chase our rhythm, and steal our slang but can’t respect the very women who gave them life.
Allow me to reintroduce myself. I’m a double major, double minor college student studying Tort Law and Business Management, with minors in Culinary Arts and Hospitality Management. My dream? To be a hotelier not just in theory, but in practice. And that dream is becoming a reality.
I’m currently in negotiations to purchase a 21-bedroom, 19-bathroom estate in Las Vegas, with plans to convert the property into a private luxury resort and short-term vacation rental. That’s right I’m not just dreaming big. I’m building bigger.
Everything I do falls under the umbrella of C.A.V.E Enterprises, my multi-business empire. I currently own and operate:
A catering service
A bed and breakfast
A residential & commercial cleaning service
A marijuana cultivation farm
An adult entertainment service
A security firm
A travel business
A childcare business
Every one of these ventures will be fully operational or funded upon the closing of my current legal case valued at $300 million. Yes, you read that right. I’m securing the bag, brick by brick, and I’m doing it my way.
That’s why it’s no surprise that my confidence threatens some. I walked into my previous job with presence and that alone made me a target. When you’re self-assured, when you exude grace and ambition, people who hide behind titles and insecurities will always feel exposed. And some will go to great lengths to try and tear you down.
Like the supervisor who booked a tour under my name, knowing it would trigger disciplinary action. Or the write-up I received for "low productivity" after being intentionally boxed out from customers. But how can you expect me to thrive in a cage built to contain me?
Still I thrived. That’s when they got scared.
I later found out that my blog was being leaked, read, and obsessed over. Either by managers or those sent to track me yes, stalkers. And when I realized I was earning less in 37 hours than I made in a single 10-hour cleaning session ($500 vs. $450), I knew it was time to exit stage left.
By the time they forced my hand, I had already accepted a better offer. The very next day, I walked into a job fair and left with eight more opportunities all paying $18/hour or better.
You see, I’m not a groupie. I’m a woman with vision. I don’t need a man like Scottie to validate me. I’ve got four degrees pending, an empire under construction, and legal wins in motion. What I don’t have is time for insecurity-driven drama.
Phil Ruffin? I know your camp sees me. I know some of these tactics are distractions, designed to steer the spotlight away from the exposure I brought your way. But here’s the twist every attempt to tear me down only boosted my visibility. My presence at Treasure Island rattled some cages. But I wasn’t there to be gawked at. I was there in purpose, in poise, and in power.
I don’t need to alter my body to fit in. My lips are real. My soul is grounded. I cook, clean, raise my children, and earn my own. That’s likely why I’m respected, loved, and watched closely.
And to anyone worried about me taking their man? Relax. I probably don’t want him. But while you’re focused on me, you’ve opened the door for someone else who might. Don’t lose yourself in insecurity and then blame others for your reflection.
No, I’m not trapped in an empty life. My life at every phase is rich, real, and mine. From my business boardroom to my future resort in Vegas, I move with purpose.
And yes… I see you watching. Glad you noticed.
C.A.V. ENTERPRISES: I don't know your plans or what motivates you
That's not my business... This is my business
Planning and Development for my Long Term Stability
REAL TALK, DON'T MISS THE MESSAGE
Some people no matter how much you love them
Are only sent in your life for a season
Inasmuch as you would like them to be long term
They were only sent for a task and/or purpose
ARE YOU SHORT TERM OR LONG TERM???
I watch my children.. how they rebel against me
They are the most impactful in my life
They are my seeds...
I stopped crying over their failures, when I realized I did my job
I wish no harm to no one, your path is what you chose
I CHOSE PEACE
There are those who will never have peace, do not know peace
I used to fear and/or worry about being "replaced"
Then I realized... it takes 3 people to do all that I do
HIGH ACHIEVER FOR LIFE
So you want me to fail, because you have no plans for your future???
The best thing Danny did for me, was betray me in my face
There is nothing!!! Anyone can say to me in POLITICS
YES, THAT INCLUDES TRUMP
I set goals in and for my life.. it gives me something to motivate me
I cannot be satisfied with simple results, I am not simple
I AM SEEKING THE AREA WHERE I PLAN TO RETIRE
I enjoy being alone, I prefer it that way
Free to find myself, my peace, to listen to the voice of GOD
I will buy land as I explained, and work towards the purchase of my farm
THERE IS MORE LAND TO BUY IN OTHER STATES
ENJOY THIS SUMMER
Before you cite, or quote a source
Make certain they know what they are talking about...
Do you know me???
Or do you know about me???
If you understand the plan GOD has my for life, most of you are only short term
I own C.A.V. ENTERPRISES which composes of 8 business (see chart)
I AM BUILDING LONG TERM SUCCESS... WHAT IS YOUR PLAN???
Marijuana Farm https://hmjmarijuanafarms.wixsite.com/hail-mary-jane-marij
Cleaning https://www.maid2ordervegas.com/
NOW EXCUSE ME... YOU CHASING FANTASY
I don't lie to myself and/or others
I deal only with reality
There are those who sit around all day watching what I do...
What are you doing for your life???
WHAT GOD HAS FOR ME IT IS FOR ME
Final Thought: My spoiled and entitled children act like I owe them
TWISTED: My bible reads a (wo)man who does not work does not eat
I earn everything I have, I work for it all
Blood, Sweat, Tears, Pain and Losses...
What does your success cost you???
You probably a Deja fan trying to be cute hun??? LOL
They chose different paths...
What I find repulsive to any level and/or degree
Is how people put Scottie on a platform as if he is the prize
GTFOMF with this bullshit!!!
To measure me good, bad, indifferent by someone who did not earn me
Thou shall not worship idols
Can I add the son I gave birth to.. should have been Jordan's
I will remind you.. I was probably Juanita's only real friend
Now sell whatever story you like
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