Stop Expecting Me to Act Like Everything Is Okay—When It’s Not
I’m not mad.
I’m DONE.
That’s what people don’t seem to understand. I’m not walking around with a chip on my shoulder. I’m not holding grudges. I’m not angry at anyone. I’m just done.
Done dealing with situations that rob me of my peace. Done giving energy to people who never give it back.
I’m done showing up for people who wouldn’t even think to check on me.
I’m done putting in effort for people who clearly wouldn’t do the same.
I’m done loving people who only love me when it’s convenient.
Once I recognize that you’re abusing what I bring to the table—whether you’re a friend, family member, or someone I’m in a relationship with—I don’t argue, I don’t explain, I just leave. THAT’S IT.
I’m not mad. I’m not bitter. I’m not sad.
I’m just finished.
Stop expecting me to smile through disrespect. Stop expecting me to shrink myself to make others comfortable. Stop expecting me to pretend like everything is okay when it’s not.
Because it’s not.
And I’m finally choosing me.
