Chevy with Janet Jackson, Chevy with Lisaraye McCoy, Chevy with Dawn Hendricks Milhouse. Playing me in a movie, won't make you me. My story has already been told.
Excuse me from any/all related #events #drama
Tuesday, May 19, 2026
This Case Will Go Forth... No Settling tell me to Shut The Fuck Up (again)
Using your words (not staff) (repost 4/19/26)
Let me be very clear this case will go forth.
I finally have time to sit, process, and truly understand the depth of what I endured. The torment. The trauma. The moments where my heart literally felt like it would explode out of my chest. That wasn’t stress… that was survival.
On my second day of training, Jeremy wrote a note that said “you’re fired.”
Not as a joke. Not as coaching. But as intimidation.
Then he attempted to report me to HR… and it backfired.
Because what he didn’t expect was documentation.
My reports go all the way back to the first week of March. This wasn’t one incident. This was a pattern.
And what’s even more disturbing?
It mirrors exactly what I experienced at another company.
So yes, I’m learning.
Learning through hard knocks.
But learning nonetheless.
$10,000 a Week… Thrown Away for Drama
Let’s talk business.
You were willing to throw away a team member with a $10,000 per week potential… for what?
Drama. Ego. Control.
That’s not leadership. That’s sabotage.
And I won’t lie the stress took a toll. My drinking increased. My smoking increased. Because when you are placed in a hostile environment, your body reacts before your mind can process.
The “Slaves” Meeting
One Friday, we walked into work and Jeremy held a team meeting… about “slaves.”
In that moment, I knew.
My days were numbered.
I tried to stay optimistic. I tried to push through. But history has shown me something very clearly:
The moment I disclose parts of my past… chaos follows.
And once again it did.
“This Is Not a Disciplinary Hearing”
I was told: “This is not a disciplinary hearing.”
Yet I was:
Badgered
Bullied
Threatened
Dismissed
All while my documented reports of extreme stress were ignored.
Let’s talk facts:
My blood pressure reached 192/91.
That is not normal.
That is not safe.
That is not coincidence.
That is workplace-induced harm.
Rejected Advances & Retaliation
Let’s call it what it is.
Jeremy was upset because I rejected his advances.
And instead of acting professionally, he chose retaliation.
But let me be clear:
I am nobody’s slave.
Not mentally.
Not emotionally.
Not professionally.
The Evidence You Created
What you intended to use against me…
Actually strengthened my case.
Now I have:
Wrongful termination
Documented harassment
Recorded intimidation
Ignored evidence requests
Witnessed behavior patterns
And yes a recorded admission that speaks louder than anything you could ever deny.
You refused to pull the call I requested to review.
That’s fine.
Because now?
That becomes evidence too.
The Bigger Picture
You questioned me.
You challenged me.
You tried to discredit me.
Over what?
Because I said I was a studying paralegal?
That alone triggered hostility?
Let that sink in.
Moving Forward — Not Back
Here’s what matters now:
I moved into my apartment this week.
After 2 years in hotels, I finally have stability.
That’s step one.
Now I move forward:
Building my business
Securing a food truck
Applying for grants
Structuring my calendar
Preparing for my next chapter
And most importantly?
Resting. Resetting. Reclaiming myself
No More Distractions
Let me also make this clear:
I’m not accepting random offers that “find me”
I’m not entertaining drama
I’m not revisiting people who add no value
If I can’t claim you in my life with peace and purpose…
I don’t know you.
Final Words
To those who created this chaos:
Thank you.
Because what you meant for harm…
became evidence.
And what you tried to break…
Only made me stronger.
What to do when... Reference Complaint #487-2026-01757 (Done) (repost 4/16/26)
When the Workplace Becomes Toxic: Standing Up to Bullying, Intimidation, and Retaliation
There’s a difference between a demanding boss and a destructive one.
We’ve all heard the phrase, “Work isn’t supposed to be easy.” But what happens when going to work feels like walking into a battlefield? When your boss uses intimidation, belittling, or constant pressure to the point where your peace, confidence, and mental health begin to erode?
At that point, it’s no longer “just work.” It’s a toxic environment—and you have rights.
Recognizing Workplace Bullying
Workplace bullying isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes it shows up as:
- Constant criticism with no constructive feedback
- Public humiliation or embarrassment
- Threats about your job security
- Being singled out or treated unfairly
- Intimidation through tone, body language, or authority
Over time, this behavior creates a hostile environment that can make even the most dedicated employee want to quit.
But before you walk away, it’s important to understand your options.
What Would You Do? Handling the Situation Strategically
When facing a bullying boss, your response matters. Acting emotionally is human—but acting strategically is powerful.
1. Document Everything
Keep a detailed record of incidents:
- Dates and times
- What was said or done
- Witnesses (if any)
- Emails, texts, or written communication
Documentation turns your experience into evidence.
2. Stay Professional
Do not mirror their behavior. Maintain composure, even when it’s difficult. Your professionalism strengthens your credibility.
3. Address It (If Safe to Do So)
In some cases, calmly addressing the issue can help:
“I’d like to work in an environment where communication is respectful and productive.”
If direct communication feels unsafe, skip this step and escalate.
4. Report Internally
Go through proper channels:
- HR department
- Supervisor above your boss
- Company grievance process
This creates a formal record and gives the company a chance to correct the issue.
When It Crosses the Line: Understanding Retaliation
Things can escalate quickly after you speak up.
If your boss begins to:
- Cut your hours
- Demote you
- Increase scrutiny unfairly
- Isolate you from opportunities
- Create write-ups to build a case against you
That may not just be bullying anymore—it could be retaliation.
How the EEOC Comes Into Play
The (EEOC) is a federal agency that enforces laws against workplace discrimination and retaliation.
Here’s the key:
Not all bullying is illegal—but retaliation tied to protected activity is.
Protected activities include:
- Reporting discrimination (race, gender, age, disability, etc.)
- Filing a complaint with HR
- Participating in an investigation
- Opposing unlawful workplace practices
If your employer punishes you for any of the above, the EEOC can step in.
Filing an EEOC Complaint
If the situation escalates, you can file a Charge of Discrimination with the EEOC.
Steps include:
- Submit your complaint online, by mail, or in person
- Provide your documentation and evidence
- The EEOC may investigate, mediate, or issue a “Right to Sue” letter
Timing matters—claims typically must be filed within 180 to 300 days of the incident.
Know Your Worth Before You Walk Away
A toxic boss can make you feel small—but don’t let them make decisions about your future.
Before quitting:
- Explore your legal protections
- Secure another opportunity if possible
- Consult with an employment attorney if needed
Leaving may be the right decision—but leaving informed is the powerful one.
Final Thoughts
No job is worth your dignity, your mental health, or your peace.
You deserve:
- Respect
- Fair treatment
- A safe and professional workplace
If you’re facing bullying or retaliation, don’t suffer in silence. Speak up, document your experience, and use the resources available to protect yourself.
Because at the end of the day, your voice matters—and so do your rights.
I AM LOOKING FOR AN EMPLOYER RIGHTS LAWYER NEVADA "As a paralegal, I've pretexted the case for you"... (repost 4/22/26)
*** FREE ADVERTISEMENT FOR EMPLOYMENT LAWYERS NEVADA ***
EEOC CHARGE OF DISCRIMINATION
(Prepared for Filing with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission)
I. JURISDICTION
This Charge is filed pursuant to:
- Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, 42 U.S.C. § 2000e et seq.
- Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), 42 U.S.C. § 12101 et seq.
- 42 U.S.C. § 1981 (if race discrimination applies)
- EEOC Retaliation Provisions, 42 U.S.C. § 2000e-3(a)
The EEOC has jurisdiction over this matter as the Respondent is an employer engaged in interstate commerce with more than 15 employees.
II. PARTIES
Complainant, Chyvette A. Valentine, was employed by LegalZoom.com, Inc. beginning on or about January 12, 2026, in a sales/call center role in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Respondent, LegalZoom.com, Inc., is a corporation doing business in Nevada and throughout the United States.
III. FACTUAL ALLEGATIONS
A. Strong Performance and Employment Background
Complainant consistently performed at a high level, generating weekly sales between approximately $6,000 and $8,300, placing her among top performers during training and early employment.
B. Hostile Work Environment (Title VII)
Complainant was subjected to severe and pervasive harassment, including:
- Being verbally abused by coworkers (e.g., called derogatory names and told to “shut the f*** up”)
- Being told by a supervisor, “Don’t be a cry baby,” prior to a performance meeting
- Being subjected to aggressive and prolonged interrogations disguised as performance reviews
- Being exposed to inappropriate and threatening workplace discussions unrelated to work (including weapons discussions)
- Being repeatedly ridiculed, judged, and verbally abused in meetings lasting over 25–30 minutes
This conduct was severe, pervasive, and objectively hostile, altering the terms and conditions of employment in violation of Title VII.
C. Defamation and False Statements (Evidence of Pretext)
Management made false and damaging statements about Complainant, including:
- Accusations of inappropriate sexual conversations that were untrue
- False claims regarding Complainant’s conduct and performance
- Misrepresentation of Complainant’s medical condition
These false statements were used to justify adverse employment actions and demonstrate pretext for discrimination and retaliation.
D. Disability and Failure to Accommodate (ADA Violations)
Complainant experienced serious medical conditions during employment, including:
- Stroke-related symptoms and dangerously elevated blood pressure (192/92) requiring medical attention
- Panic attacks triggered by workplace conditions
Complainant requested reasonable accommodations, including work-from-home arrangements, supported by medical documentation.
Respondent:
- Failed to engage in the interactive process required under the ADA
- Denied or ignored accommodation requests
- Continued conduct that exacerbated Complainant’s medical condition
This conduct violates the ADA, including 42 U.S.C. § 12112(b)(5)(A) (failure to accommodate).
E. Retaliation (Title VII & ADA)
Complainant engaged in protected activity, including:
- Filing internal complaints regarding harassment and misconduct
- Escalating complaints to executive leadership, including CEO Jeff Stibel
- Reporting fear of retaliation
- Requesting ADA accommodations
- Filing or initiating an EEOC complaint on or about March 23, 2026
Following this protected activity, Respondent engaged in unlawful retaliation, including:
- Increased scrutiny and targeting
- Manipulation of call queues and sales opportunities
- Fabrication of complaints from unidentified “peers”
- Efforts to force Complainant to resign
F. Unlawful Termination
Shortly after Complainant engaged in protected EEOC activity on or about April 10, 2026, Respondent terminated her employment.
The temporal proximity between protected activity and termination, combined with a pattern of retaliatory conduct, establishes a prima facie case of retaliation under:
- 42 U.S.C. § 2000e-3(a)
- 42 U.S.C. § 12203 (ADA retaliation)
The stated reasons for termination were pretextual and based on false allegations.
IV. CLAIMS FOR RELIEF
Respondent’s conduct constitutes unlawful employment practices, including:
1. Retaliation in violation of Title VII and the ADA
2. Hostile Work Environment under Title VII
3. Disability Discrimination and Failure to Accommodate under the ADA
4. Wrongful Termination in violation of federal law
5. Defamation and False Statements (as evidence of pretext and damages)
6. Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress (supplemental state claim)
V. DAMAGES
As a direct result of Respondent’s unlawful conduct, Complainant has suffered:
- Emotional distress, anxiety, and panic episodes
- Physical health complications
- Loss of wages and employment benefits
- Damage to professional reputation
- Loss of future earning capacity
VI. REQUEST FOR RELIEF
Complainant respectfully requests that the EEOC:
1. Investigate Respondent’s unlawful practices
2. Find cause that Respondent violated federal law
3. Order appropriate relief, including:
- Back pay and front pay
- Compensatory damages
- Punitive damages
- Injunctive relief
4. Issue a Notice of Right to Sue
VII. DECLARATION
I declare under penalty of perjury that the foregoing is true and correct to the best of my knowledge.
Monday, May 18, 2026
#LegalZoom Do You Know What Willful and Intentional Infliction of Mental and Emotional Abuse Means?
"Jeremy Kintigh pushed me into suicidal thoughts" (repost 4/19/26)
Let’s talk about something most people throw around but very few truly understand.
Willful and intentional infliction of mental and emotional abuse is not a misunderstanding.
It’s not “just business.”
It’s not “pressure to perform.”
It is deliberate behavior calculated, repeated, and designed to break someone down mentally and emotionally.
And when you recognize it for what it is… everything changes.
I have never been more excited to hear the words:
“You’re fired, Jeremy.”
Not because I celebrate negativity… but because sometimes removal is protection, not punishment.
Because when someone pushes you to your limit
tests your peace,
questions your worth,
and creates an environment built on pressure, ridicule, and control
There comes a moment when your spirit says:
“Enough.”
Was It All a Setup?
That’s the question I had to ask myself.
Was this a staged situation?
A calculated environment?
A joke at my expense?
Because when patterns repeat themselves
when behavior feels targeted
when your intuition keeps sounding alarms
You don’t ignore that.
You document it.
And I did.
Documentation Is Power
I have video.
I have notes.
I have timelines.
Not out of fear…
but out of awareness.
Because one thing I’ve learned:
When people think you won’t speak up, they move differently.
When they realize you can prove it, everything shifts.
This Is Bigger Than Me
This isn’t just about one person.
This is about a pattern that exists in workplaces everywhere.
People being:
- Silenced
- Pressured
- Emotionally manipulated
- Pushed to the edge
And then told to “just deal with it.”
No.
We’re not doing that anymore.
Know the Difference
There is a difference between:
- Leadership and intimidation
- Accountability and humiliation
- Performance management and emotional abuse
And if you’ve experienced it you know exactly what I mean.
Taking Back Control
For me, this is not about anger.
This is about clarity.
This is about boundaries.
This is about accountability.
Because once you recognize intentional harm…
you also recognize your power to:
- Walk away
- Speak up
- Document everything
- Protect your peace
Final Thought
If you’ve ever questioned whether what you’re experiencing is “real”…
Let me tell you this:
If it feels targeted, repeated, and harmful to your mental and emotional well-being it matters.
And more importantly…
YOU matter.
Audit your environment.
Protect your peace.
And never ignore what your spirit is trying to tell you.
Sunday, May 17, 2026
SWEET LOVE ... DIANDRE I LOVE YOU
Dear Diandre,
I need you to survive.
You are my firstborn, my baby, my blessing. I did not carry you in my womb for your father or for anyone else. The decision to bring you into this world was mine, and I have never regretted it for one second.
Every single day that you wake up and breathe, I thank GOD. Every smile, every laugh, every giggle you have ever shared has meant something to me. You may not always realize it, but your life matters deeply.
You could have been in a grave, but GOD showed mercy and allowed you to still be here. That alone tells me your life has purpose.
I am not embarrassed by you. I am not ashamed of you. I love you completely, unconditionally, and forever. No mistake, no hardship, no struggle could ever change the fact that you are my son.
I need you to keep fighting for your life, your peace, your future, and your happiness. Even on the days when you feel lost, tired, angry, or misunderstood, please remember there is a mother praying for you and loving you through it all.
You are stronger than you know.
You are worthy of love.
You are worthy of another chance, and another day.
No matter where life takes us, I will always be your mother, and I will always love you.
Love Always,
Mom
Ok, I got that out of my system... it's time to go
That was the last straw
No more contact with Chicago
"ALL PASTORS PLEASE STAND"
27. These statements were made to pastors, judges, lawyers, employers, landlords, politicians, business associates, social media influencers, entertainment executives, gig platforms, and law enforcement, with the intent to permanently undermine Plaintiff’s credibility, deny her access to housing or employment, and isolate her from all sources of support.
I refuse to carry this negativity into my future
I only wish Scottie was worth this drama...
I will gladly leave Nevada, in fact I'll take it one step further... I'm leaving the USA never to return...
Knowing that Crump is directly influenced by Jesse Jackson Sr, Al Sharpton and others. Now, stay the fuck out of my face...
I don't need to revisit why I posed a threat. Pulled off the floor for being too talented (again)...
I'm done. I will find a role to fill my time until I can get on my feet, then I'm out of Nevada.
My sincere apologies but I keep telling you "I never wanted Scottie baby", and Lisa was never my friend, so there's nothing to talk about.
I wish I could pretend like I care, but using her to provoke me, only motivates me to cut more people off.
I don't want to share my dreams, visions or goals... I've learned to keep my mouth shut.
Yes, my feelings are hurt, I really wanted to shine in that role, but I realize now more than ever who I need in my life.
Now excuse me, I'm not fighting over a man, with a lesbian or a lost lover from his past. I never wanted him!!!
I want compensation for the wrongful death of my son, and for targeting me because I refuse to play a stupid ass bitch!!!
I am leaving Vegas, seeing they want a show, entertainment...
I seek peace of mind.
I'm NOT investing any money in Nevada, you've made it perfectly clear you are willing to aide Obama at any cost.
I don't give a fuck about Obama, and Trump does not control me... now excuse me.
I'm not playing a stupid bitch... because Kamala Harris made being a whore look attractive.
Looking stupid as hell trying to repay debts from your campaign, after over drawing your account looking like a junkie...
Who the fuck raises 1 billion, then ends $20 million in debt?
I don't fuck with Dawn or Lisa...
If living in Vegas is a Default reason for you to profile me as a whore... I'll leave!!!
Jesse Jackson and the Jackson family don't mean shit to me!!!
He is just another gay religious leader cheating on his wife like the rest of them... don't you ever come near me "ever" again!!!
How the fuck you set up Dr King to get assassinated, then cash in on the story...
I know the truth, don't play with me... you know IDGAF!!!
Malika (Shabazz) is making so much sense to me right now.
She warned me how deviate some of these leaders are, naive I thought I was safe and free.
I watch how they cover up and conceal...
Just like Jonathan Jackson uses his father's influence to secure having a voice... knowing as soon as he dies PUSH will close and they will all suffer.
Diddy gave Jonathan money to hold that seat, he's not the most qualified, selling Chicago out for Obama.
"As soon as your father dies, your ass is on"... we not kids
YOU STARTED SHOOTING AT ME WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WOULD ENDORSE PAT DOWELL FOR CONGRESS!!!
Election Day, yes you did!!!
JUST LIKE PRITZGER IS TRYING TO USE THIS TO RUN FOR PRESIDENT!!!!
Highland Park Shooting #REFERENCE
Now you know IDGAF you took me out of another seat!!!
Ok, he was my father... is that why you target me???
I don't believe in you, thank you!!!
You can't call me to change the time on your clock, I'm not stupid.
Democrats should be tired of looking like dumb ass slaves.
Jonathan when your father dies, your ass is mine!!!
I promise I won't bail you out of shit!!!
I am not protecting any of you, including and not limited to Al Sharpton, fuck all of you fake HIV carrying want to be pimps, fucking Lisa or Dawn. Lets watch him "shrink"!!!
I have paperwork on Danny, of course I added Jonathan...
How the fuck you admit to killing Dr. King, while explaining he was my father, like I won't respond...
Breaking New: Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton both fucking toxic pussy, in critical condition. I wish the fuck I would.
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