Family isn't what it used to be. It used to be a time when you could go to Grandma's house to eat, hang out with the family, and just have a good time.
Now, everyone chooses who they want to be with. Aunts and uncles pick which kids to be proud of. Brothers and sisters treat friends more like family.
Cousins talk bad about each other like they aren't flawed. Grandparents favor certain grandkids. And often, the only time you see everyone together is at a funeral.
