CELEBRATING 9 YEARS OF CELIBACY
Saturday, December 13, 2025
SMEAR CAMPAIGNS
A smear campaign is one of the narcissist’s most dangerous weapons because it attacks you where it hurts the most — your character, your credibility, and your connections. It’s psychological warfare designed to isolate you before you even realize what’s happening. By the time you start defending yourself, the narcissist has already planted seeds of doubt in people’s minds, making you look guilty for reacting to the very lies they created.
What makes smear campaigns so destructive is how subtle they start. A narcissist rarely begins with loud accusations. Instead, they drip-feed “concerns,” half-truths, and distorted stories to people around you. They position themselves as the victim and you as unstable, ungrateful, or abusive. This quiet poisoning of your reputation spreads faster than you can track — because people love drama, and narcissists know exactly how to exploit that.
Another danger is the social isolation it causes. When people around you start believing the narcissist’s narrative, you lose support at the exact moment you need it most. Friends pull back. Family becomes biased. Mutual connections take sides. Suddenly, you’re defending yourself against stories you never knew existed. The emotional toll is heavy — confusion, shame, anger, and a deep sense of betrayal that stays long after the relationship ends.
Smear campaigns also trap victims in prolonged pain because they force you into “damage control mode.” You spend energy clarifying lies, proving your side, and trying to correct the narrative. The narcissist thrives on this — your reaction becomes part of their next lie. The more you defend yourself, the “guiltier” they make you appear. It’s a setup that drains your mental health and keeps you tied to the narcissist’s chaos.
The final danger is that smear campaigns shape how you see yourself. When your name is dragged through the mud, it’s easy to internalize the lies. You begin doubting your character, questioning your memories, and wondering how someone who claimed to love you could do something so cruel. But here’s the truth: smear campaigns say nothing about your worth — they reveal everything about the narcissist’s fear of being exposed.
WTF: SO YOU HATING ON WOMEN LIKE THIS??? I KNOW IT'S #REAL
Woman Went on A Cruise Ship with A Guy She Recently Met Online - He Sold Her to Traffickers, But She.
Naima thought she was embarking on the vacation of a lifetime, a chance to escape her mundane responsibilities and rediscover herself.
At 53, she finally felt alive again, swept away by the charm of Khalil, a stranger she met online who promised her adventure and freedom.
But what began as a dream quickly spiraled into a horrific reality when Khalil revealed his true intentions, leading her into a dark alley where her worst fears came to life.
Sold to traffickers for organ harvesting, Naima's story is a harrowing reminder that sometimes the biggest risks come disguised as the sweetest promises.
Friday, December 12, 2025
Murder of Devonte Pippen #ScottiePippen #ChicagoBulls #NBA #COVERUP #Rape
On 9/15/2011 my son was picked up on vandalism charges, which escalated into charges against 3 Chicago Police. This is his last account of what happened to him, while in police custody. I knew this might be "our last call", because he was such a "high profile target". So I recorded the call to save his word, of the account, just in case "anything happen to him in Chicago Police Custody".
He eventually lost his life on 01/19/2012 months after being released, with a CPD Felon target on his back. what Chicago Police cannot explain is.. How was he a threat, in restraints? The untold story of Devonte Jeffory Mitchell Pippen, sorry fans, we never got the DNA, so we do not know if he was EVIDENCE of RAPE (11) by Scottie Pippen (33), or a cover story from his brother Karl Pippen... 2010 Federal Filing for Illegal Seizure of my children https://dockets.justia.com/docket/illinois/ilndce/1:2010cv04751/245980 2010 Federal Filing for Illegal Seizure of my children https://dockets.justia.com/docket/illinois/ilndce/1:2011cv08532/262955 THEY WANT YOU TO THINK I AM CRAZY, MENTALLY ILL?? WHY? MY CASE WAS WORTH $33 MILLION BEFORE HE DIED!!!!
KNOW THE SIGNS OF #CONTROL #ABUSE
It doesn’t always look like a bruise. Sometimes abuse looks like an empty bank account, no access to a car, or constant monitoring. 🚫💔
Financial abuse and "coercive control" are the invisible chains that make leaving nearly impossible for too many women.
How can we better support those who are trapped financially, not just physically?
#financialabuse #domesticviolenceawareness #BreakTheCycle
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